Memories

Memories

Memories of Fazal Manzil: A Magical Journey Through Warmth and Affection

The name Fazal Manzil conjures up for me a fairy tale place full of warmth, affection and good cheer! It is one of my most cherished memories of my childhood and a place I venerate because it was my mother’s ancestral home where she lived with her parents and siblings and their children.
I remember visiting it during my winter vacations for about a week each year and I remember how I looked forward to it. All four of my Mamoons with their combined force of 33 children lived in Fazal Manzil, a haveli consisting of about 60/70 rooms. It was constructed by my Nana Abdul Aziz’s father called Fazal Din, after whom the haveli was named.
It was a magical place for me, it was a dream come true! I went from my home in Lahore, where I was an only child and walked into this huge haveli with children of all ages and sizes coming out of every room with whom I could spend time and play and where I was thoroughly pampered by all my aunts, uncles and cousins! What a delight it was, having gol guppas to our hearts’ content, brought by Majid Mamoon; going to the Lucky Circus with him where the Lady, riding the bike in the Death Well, was his friend; playing hide and seek in the umpteen rooms, flying paper Chinese lanterns in the night; having special parathas made by Bari Maaami; making secret plans to go to the cinema, which never came to fruition; having wrestling matches with my skinny cousin Nasreen who threw over my plump self like a rag doll!
Thank you Fazal Manzil and all its inmates who gave me the reservoir of love out of which I have been able to share with all the others who have been part of my life’s journey!

By: Shama Khaliq

Mar 15th 2024

Fazal Manzil Kay Na’am

In the heart of Imam Sahib
Stands a haveli called, Fazal Manzil
It is filled with sweet & bitter memories, mysteries, and some amazing histories

The pioneer of Fazal Manzil was a man called, Fazal Din
Whose charisma was much greater than a bright beam
He disciplined his grandchildren by teaching them the Quran & its Deen

His son was Abdul Aziz, who was everyone’s Baba Ji
He was hard to please
But enjoyed eating a pure cottage cheese
Baba Ji had a great plan
He made sure that all lived as a clan
And ensured that the family fights had an absolute ban

The Fazalites were fond of a fair complexion
Rather a tan
Men adored women like Diane & Suzane
Women with ordinary looks were automatically their behin
They enjoyed sitting in the sehin
And listened to Tan Sa’ an

Bhaya Ji’s creativity and witty personality
Made him sweet like a strawberry jam
PK Club was his little lamb

Pa Billa’s dashing looks can be found in Barbara Carltand’s book
Dada Latif was a man with the utmost class
His exams were difficult to pass
He taught brilliant students among the mass
Who did much better than a filmy Devdas

Taya Barkat was a very lucky man
He married not once, twice, but thrice
His last wife turned out to be very wise

Chacha Rehmat had his own galore
His heart was in Sialkot not in Lahore

Chacha Majeed was surrounded by children
Equality was something that he preached
He had five kids from his two wives each

Phopho Noor & Phopho Feroza were Baba Ji ki dolls
Loved by all

Zarina apa was the role model
A KC head girl, who received a gold medal

Tota was tall and Mithu was always on call
Weeda bhai was the pillar of the Fazalites
He was in the limelight
He worked very hard to make his future bright
Guddu, Qaiser, Guddo, Golla, & Papiya kept Weeda bhai updated day & night
Pinnie, Nasreen, Acha, Amjad, & Kala were never out of sight

Pa Asif & Abbas, had their shrine
They were no less than a red vine
Apa Akhtar left the world in no time

Pa Asadi, Ahsan, & Arif were macho brothers of their time
Pa Shukat, Shafqat, Taja, Kishu, Qamari, Kao, & Mutu
All loved to dine

Shama, Zeb, & Zeenat had an educated mind
Apa Farrukh, Farida & Jata were very kind

The grandchildren are waiting in line
To make their ancestral roots continue to thrive & shine
Thanks to the Global Fazal Manzil Group admins, Ahmed, Anjum, Haider, Hassan, Fahad, & Qasim for reconnecting us all after a very long time.

By: Amoo Jee

3/25/2024

Memories of Fazal Manzil: A Magical Journey Through Time

I close my eyes thinking of my earliest childhood memories, found myself knocking at Asif chacha’s door asking for an ice block for my Mum’s Iftar .

Yes, this was my very first memory regarding Fazal Manzil in mid 80s, when I was living there for a short span of time.
Down to memory lane the door opened and saw my brother (Hassan Ali) watering “sukh chain” and telling me that one day it will grow strong enough so that you can put a swing on it.
Than I found a little girl waiting for “chige” from her Faiza Apa ( sitting in Gool Kamra)
While sighting for horse cart coming from Imam Sahib Road.
Time went by quickly, from attending wedding ceremonies in this Haveli to having spent joyous Eids, Taking Eidi from Rahat Taya and goodies (in his frequent visits), enjoying sweets from Asif chacha Aka (Paa ji) . 
I always found my elders taking keen interest in our upbringing while it was  straightening of postures or the correction of pronunciation by Asif chacha.
Asdi chacha and Achy aboo (Arshad Majeed) were the icons  who listened all our milly naghmas and naats make sure it will be up to mark for any competition in our school. 
I took many rides from Sialkot to Lahore with Asdi chacha, having a very profound conversation on politics arts and food.
 
Rahat Taya played  a vital role in polishing personalities, teaching through his actions  how to fill small gaps with  compassion and make yourself a strong bridge between the family.
Or its Shama Phuphoo make sure to attend every function and sets a standard. 
 
List goes on and I found myself  in blanket with Perveen Phuphoo listening stories of the glorious past.
How can one forget, sayings of “Bhaiya ji” by Kh Qaiser (aboo) and Gudoo chacha after every Neno second .
No doubt it has a strong impact on our lives. 
 
All the aesthetic sense Gudoo Phuphoo has showed the glimpse of Zarina Phuphoo. Which adds a flavour in every dish.
 
Our mum always appreciate and welcome all the suggestions by Fazalites, that’s a strong reason of being connected.
 
We said good bye to many of our loved ones in the yard of Fazal manzil.
I saw my Dadoo’s funeral passing the main door.
For me “Fazal manzil” is a symbol of unity and togetherness. I feel myself secure while passing through it when we were going for school and college. 
 
From being our mischievous little selves to living in complete harmony,  we all loved and cherished this unbreakable bond of ours .
 

By: Aaiza Qaiser

Apr 2nd 2024

Flashback and Reflection!

1975-1982
Trips to Fazal Manzil, Sialkot

In the early years, visits to Fazal Manzil were quite like a chapter out of ‘Famous Five’ or Amber Nag Maria mystery series; full of adventure. It tickled a child’s imagination causing so many exciting themes to come to life.

‘Gol Kamra’ in its uniqueness deserves a special mention here, as do the numerous, mysterious staircases found at unexpected spots, leading to unaquainted spaces that only a child’s mind could define. The curiosity to know those pathways still lives in my heart, as it yearns to unlock the Haveli’s glorious spread.

A particularly vivid memory relates to the terrace above Asif Chachas portion which had a small crack in it. Underneath, one could see an empty room surrounded by blue walls. To me, it was a place where spirits lived, eager to capture children that stepped out of line. I can still recall the thrills associated with peeping through the crack.
Another interesting and unexplored area was the one on right side of the informal entrance, supposedly where Bhayya chacha used to live. At that time, it was masked by trees and out of bounds, making it all the more intriguing.

The central courtyard (where most Mehendis took place) was a special place held close to my heart. I loved the windows of ‘Baithak’ looking over it from above.
Also, it was at this place, that a peculiar sense prevailed, suggesting this was where our ancestors (specifically Abbaji) found inexplicable peace, by just being there; it was a place where happy memories were shared amongst family members.
Now, at this stage in life, my heart understands a bit better; It knows precisely why it was so, and why we reconnected after so many years. It was always the great Fazal Manzil that pulled everyone back home…to make them converge, unite, appreciate and celebrate each other!

…And as I say this, I almost see great great Dada Fazal Din gently nod and smile from the heavens above 🙂

By: Muneeza

April 15, 2024